Tomorrow is your special day...and perhaps you are not prepared or do not feel like you are in your good senses. Being a bride-to-be is not just about holding the tag and happy moments, rather it has its own sets of jitters. And we very well know that!
We know how that nervousness and stress can lead to not rejoicing your day and being unable to enjoy the best day of your life. And believe us, you’re not the only one!
We know there are so many brides-to-be out there who feel the same, and so we couldn’t resist helping you with some of the tips that will calm you down and relieve you from stress.
These tips are surely gonna help you in calming yourselves and enjoying the merry to the fullest. Check them how!
Calming Tips every Anxious Brides-to-be must read
1. It’s all Okay!
We know this might sound a bit cliche, but it’s the fact. It is absolutely all okay to be anxious and feel stressed about your special day. Know that it happens with everybody — brides, grooms, family members — and you are not alone.
Stressing out for your big day may not work out and can spoil your mood for the day. So, it is better you knock on the door of your family members, or give a ring to your spouse and discuss everything you feel. Just take deep breaths and think about sitting beside the man of your dreams!
2. Don’t take the entire toll on yourself. Allocate to others!
We know it’s important to know everything in and around your wedding. And it’s your responsibility to plan everything ahead, right from decor to how you will look on your wedding day. But, don’t take the responsibility of doing everything by yourself. Assign people around you with some tasks, just overview them, relax and trust that it will be done — because it will.
However, be in the zone of taking responsibility and doing tasks that you feel must be done by yourself.
3. Envision your Wedding Day
This is the best way to relieve you from stress and calm down your nerves. Start visualising yourself in that beautiful dress. Visualise yourself walking down the aisle, exchanging vermillions or taking vows with your bae, or be obsessed with the scene of you two kissing and getting clicked, envisioning it all like a film.
This way when the big day arrives, you will not be anxious as you have already lived the day once and it is nothing entirely new.
4. Have a Playlist Ready
No doubt music is the best therapy to bring you to the moment. Having a playlist compiled with your favourite songs will keep you happy and cheered up for the day. It is going to help you before the wedding day as well as while you get ready to make you feel better, jolly and cheery.
5. Be around your favourite bunch of people
You would have some of your favourite people in your life around whom you feel — all is well! So, have someone around or talk to these people, and you will see all your stress has already vanished. Being around the ones you feel blessed to have will turn your anxiety into joy and cheerfulness.
6. Build a Rapport with Vendors
Building a rapport with your vendors is essential. Having a harmonious professional relationship with your wedding vendors will not only help you easily discuss and convey your needs but also help them to give ideas and put in their best efforts.
Especially, you should build a good rapport with your photographer. Even if you are camera conscious, doing this will make posing and getting clicked a lot easier.
7. Eyes only on the Man
Beautiful brideys, you don’t have to worry if everything is going to work out, what others would think of your appearance, or constantly worry about your guests’ needs. There are people to take command of all these things.
You just need to focus on your man on your beautiful day. Don’t miss these precious moments amidst all the stress and nervousness. Dive into his eyes, talk and laugh with him, and enjoy your day together to the fullest.
