Weddings are the most auspicious once-in-a-lifetime day for a would-be couple. And tying a knot, especially in the Indian Tradition, has a myriad of things to do. There are a lot of factors that influence the wedding day that you two would remember throughout your life. Furthermore, finalisation of date also means to finalise everything before and after the wedding, and not just planning for the D-day.
We have made a quick 7 point guide or checklist that you must consider before finalising your wedding date.
1. Astrological influences and Suitable dates
Every Indian family like yours would want to have the special occasion on a positive day, considering your horoscopes. Finalising a good day — as per astrologer’s wisdom — is a paramount that you should follow. Ask a considerable leeway of dates from your astrologer. This will assist you in deciding the date amongst a greater horizon of factors that would count.
Apart from this, some religions do follow the astrological influences and others don’t, it is necessary you select a date or a month that goes parallel with your positive vibes zone.
2. List of events
Marking and setting a list of events is crucial for wedding planning. Everything from roka to sagan to ultimately the day, has to be pre-planned. Why? Because you would not want any of these events clashing with festivals, insane workload months, or special occasions, to turn down a gathering for your most memorable days. While brides should also take into account their menstrual cycles to happily enjoy any of the days peacefully.
3. Budget that you hold
A wide range of things before finalising the wedding date depends upon the budget you hold. Keeping in account the list of events, as a would-be couple, you must consult with your family members about the expenditures and the requirements based on the depth of your pocket. The magnitude of every event is varied, and it must be pre-planned. Pre planned long before — to book your day, check the rent associated, the space available, the accommodating factors, and services provided for any of the events and places.
However, due to this pandemic, it is evident we cannot plan massive gatherings and events. So, it is necessary to take into account constrained situations and plannings, and the subsequent expenditures. There could be some events that can be conducted with only loved ones at your home, and there could be some events that can be conducted with minimal count rendezvous. Both of them will require a different set of budgeting.
4. Deciding the venue for events
The events of a wedding should be as beautiful as your invisible tethered bond. And to make events beautiful you must select amongst the best venues in your city. The beauty and aura of these places will photoengrave in your hearts for life. Furthermore, the venues should also be confirmed keeping in mind the nature of the event. For instance, a roka ceremony will only require a small space to accommodate your loved ones. However, a ladies sangeet or reception or the wedding day will require larger spaces. It might also be possible that the venue you put a heart on, is pre-booked. So, on an earnest note, it is important to communicate with the management at the earliest to book your desired slot for a desired time.
Moreover, before booking your slot, you must also check the safety norms that are taken by the organisers & management of the place in this pandemic. Ensuring the safety measures will make you relieved from the constant fear for everyone’s well-being on your special day.
5. Wedding Seasons and Vendors
It would be a displeasing situation if you have planned your wedding around harsh summers or pouring monsoons. You should check out the forecasting of the city around that time, so you do not have to worry about an unprecedented action of nature. Moreover, you both should pre-decide the vendors: the videographers & photographers, favorite flowers, adequate cuisine, performing events, etc. so that everyone is available on your day. Deciding and having a clear picture of the vendors on the table also makes it easy for you to spin & alter your budget accordingly.
This will soothe you from last moment arrangements, cherishing the perfectly splendid moments to reminisce for life.
6. Destination and Traveling
Some of the couples like you drool over to have a grand destination wedding. And who would not want to get married like a queen and a king descending from stairs with flowers all over, and taking vows under a beguiling pavilion.
However, a lot of things come into consideration for a big fat destination wedding. To make this happen, you need to check the availability of your desired dream palace. Communicate with the organisers and management of the place regarding the climatic conditions, the services offered, and the safety measures taken assuming the current situation. Over and above, you also need to check for not having any big event in the city. This might make it difficult for the guests to come by flight, accommodate, and make other arrangements.
Besides, you need to plan your budget wisely and precisely as everyone would be traveling to the place. So, you have to make sure everyone is at ease with traveling and arriving for the events.
7. Personal desires and Special Occasions
You and your fiance might have a personal desire for the kind of wedding and arrangements you want for some special occasions. A personal desire for the bride would be to get married on the same day you first ever met, or the day he bent on the knees. Considering these beautiful moments and days will be a cherry on the top. Likewise, the groom would want to recreate a precious moment from your relationship or courtship making his soulmate into tears.
On a final note, we at WedNicely, believe considering these small things will help you make your wedding a lifetime experience you would narrate your generations to come. After all, a wedding is the only occasion you cannot relive.
So, live it once, and to the fullest.
